List five things you do for fun.

1. Explore and or create new dishes. 2. Write poems. 3. Sit and start a fun conversation. 4. Climb mountain or spend time in the beach. 5. Take a long trip via bus.

What’s your dream job?

That one that spreads good vibes…

What makes a good leader?

A great leader should know when to not and to take risks, capable of telling his followers that he will be there for them no matter what.

Security…

In my personal opinion, a leader should make his followers feel more secured. That no matter how things go, there’s always a room for everything. A second try, another chance and an opportunity to grow.

Balance…

Capable of maintaining the balance between himself and his followers, offers growth rather than taking credit for things done. Someone who knows his and his follower’s weaknesses and strengths and the ability to turn it into a perfect match to achieve greater things than isolate the weak and take out all the stronger ones.

Someone who’s willing to walk on the same steps with his followers.

If you could un-invent something, what would it be?

War was invented by people who believed that wiping out their enemies can rebuild humanity. It does the opposite, it creates more enemies…it destroys not rebuild. It places everyone and everything in chaos, fear and anxiety.

Can you share a positive example of where you’ve felt loved?

Last year, the month of May. I was invited to a friend’s birthday party, and I was with new friends. I was introduced by a friend to a bigger circle of hers, I was new. Since I got this goofy playful attitude and lively features, I got close to them right away. I’ve got a knack for making strangers feel comfortable towards me, which made me feel like I have no problem getting along or blending with a huge crowd.

While we were having fun, three new friends suddenly called me out and asked me when my birthday was. I smiled and shyly told them, the following month on the 21st. They were like, what is that you want on your birthday? Do you have any particular dish preferences? I was shocked, I don’t celebrate birthdays. I never wanted to you know bother people either, but I was caught in such a situation.

I shook my head, replied with a smile and told them. Well, I’m the happiest with chicken. Any chicken dish, cause that friend of mine who introduced me to them signalled me to just talk and no pressure. They were like, three of them. Okay, I’ll do the chicken! So I replied, no no please, do not. I don’t want to bother and I still am not sure if I can make it out since I got work and it’s not easy to bail my self out for a rest day.

They went on…even after the party. They went on talking about it in our group chat, it was the second time someone asked me what I wanted and brought it to me. A friend asked me what I wanted, and that time around 2016 I was craving hard-boiled chicken eggs. The time we met, she brought me a dozen boiled eggs and told our other friends to not touch them until I told them to.

Back to my birthday last year…

I went to the place where they wanted to meet me, overflowing dishes greeted me and they got me different chicken dishes. I spent my entire meal time munching and devouring one whole roasted chicken. I have never received such consideration, like being asked what is it that I want. They threw me a party with the food that I love! That was the time I told my self…

So this is how it felt when you are being considered? When what you like matters, when your happiness is something that other people (not related by blood) turned to be the family you wished for. Considerate of what you like and are aiming to make you feel loved. I was blessed…really I am. I found an extended family through strangers…and they make me feel warm and loved.

Where can you reduce clutter in your life?

I don’t have that much of a clutter, I don’t collect things that aren’t used in everyday. I only have things that I can use, from clothes to accessories and so on.

But…

In the house that I built for my parents to live in, it has got a lot of what I call trash. Clutters, from kitchen wares to clothes to curtains are of no use. I hate clusters, I don’t like keeping a stash of things that cannot be used. So I plan to clear that house away and turn that into a home than of a warehouse.

What is your favorite animal?

This prompt has been posted last year.

In what ways do you communicate online?

From friends to relatives, they all use this and this is the most common social media or online communication channel known in my area.