#4 Fate
A conqueror’s faith…
If we are to leave things as they were like we were told that everything in our lives was written and is already predestined and all we need to do is just wait, accept and embrace everything, even the most shitty and fucked up moments in our lives. Then what’s there to live for?
Life…
How many of you have ever been told that IT’S MEANT TO HAPPEN..rather than…PICK YOURSELF UP AND FIND A WAY OUT! Sometimes, we are being told to take the easiest route rather than encouraged to yeah, take it, but try going against the current and waves. Life becomes shitty, not because it is predestined and just fated to happen to us. It’s more of, you let yourself be in that situation and you allowed it to take a toll on you.
What matters…
Alright, I get it. Some things are bound to happen no matter how much we try to escape and get away from it. Let’s take it from the movie Final Destination, imagine knowing that you know that shit will happen and you tried to escape and fight against it yet it finds you and you got stuck and died according to what was written in your fate. If you know you are dying, fated to die and suffer. Then you cannot escape, and you need not escape but rather accept it plus a goal in mind to enjoy the remaining time of your life. It’s what matters most, not the written fate but how you face it.
Bad decisions…
In my life, out of ten decisions, there were 8 bad and 2 fine or that have garnered an average result. If I am to say that this was fated to happen to me, then it’s going to be that way is it? Even if I die, nothing will change, it will be a fucked up life, a shitty one and a mess. I made bad decisions, not fated, but bad. If you believe in God and the creator, in whichever name you know about it. You will never take that creator as someone who wanted to just mess with your life, correct? I never believe that God gave me a messy shitty and fucked up life to start with, he gifted me with life with so much to learn from if I can see its meaning. If I fail, then that doesn’t have to do with God fated me with it but rather, I kept failing to learn and instead I kept repeating the same mistakes.
What is there to live for?
A shitty life hides the best reason to live it even more, however, it depends on the person. We believe what we choose to believe and we reject what we choose to reject, it depends on how we see it. Fate believers will eventually say, This mess is fated to happen to me, but eventually, as fate allows it I will soon rise above all this shit! There are quite a lot of people who believed too much in fate, to the point that they stood against a storm with arms wide open. The failure to see the meaning of everything that’s happening will result in a fool rushing into the flame thinking that it won’t burn hurt him. He is fated to walk it through, and just like that he dies believing such.
Fate is?
For me, fate is the fuel to find a reason to live life no matter how shitty it becomes. If I am told that the bad things that happened to me were fated and will never change, and I can never change it. Then, might as well I’d cross the road with cars moving and just get hit. Humans were gifted with the brain, on their head, located above all other parts of their body. Why? It’s to foresee things, it is to determine what is what and which is which. To stand tall against anything, to conquer even fate without losing the ability to think of which meaning of his life is meant for. The search for meaning is tiring and exhausting, which makes fate’s existence more amusing. It all depends on you, on how you’d conquer your shits with faith.
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