Humans are known to being emotional and can be affected with any amount of pain, there are those who suffers occasional pain while some suffers pain in everyday. Nobody lives a perfect life which is free from anything for even the wealthiest and richest individuals do have their share of pain. On a positive point of view, psychologically (not professionally) pain leaves that impression of how one could cope up with the amount of pain inflected. There individuals who suffers maltreatments such as physical and verbal abuses, and the level of pain depends on who inflected it.
The pain i greater to be felt when someone dear to us gave it, those whom we knew could’ve how treat us better rather than hurt us. A family member, relative, boyfriend/girlfriend, bestfriend and anyone really holds a bond within us. The coping up depends on how we react to the pain, questions with whys will start popping out our heads like ‘why did that person did that?’ ‘why it has to be that person amongst everyone who did hurt us?’. For a common scenario, cheating in between people who shares intimate relationship can neither be considered intentional nor unintentional. Whoever cheats would always come up with ‘I don’t know, I really don’t know’. For some cases, it would be ‘because I am no longer happy with you’.
Human’s ability to hurt someone comes naturally disregarding the reason behind such act, like of how a child suffers being neglected an ignored upon growing up. It sure will affect a child’s growth and more likely to leave an impactful effect of the person the child becomes. Suffering in pain at an early age is something truly daring enough to leave anyone in n awe. Other’s will use the past suffering as an excuse to pity own sef when being challenge by pain for once again, while tere are those who inflect the same pain to others believing it was something they got when they grow up and something they can give out to anyone.
Unaware of what it may cause others, some people who suffered from great pain would choose to dwell longer on their pain than cope up and try to move on. Of course, coping up and moving on is one difficult thing to do. However, if we choose to live with our past sufferings as an excuse or reason that we choose not to outgrow the current pain would only make it even worst. The next thing we realize is that, we lose everything. Pain, the more we dwell on it the more it will take a toll on us. It will cost us everything that we have, the job that e dreamed of having, the family that we try to build, the person we promise our lifetime to spend with or even the entire deam we struggled to put and build.
There is always a way to outgrow pain, but it will always never going to be that easy. We do need pain to grow finely but too much of it might only end what we have started. It’s a risk we take and we choose to allow it to make or break us, as we choose to fall in love there is no guarantee that we won’t get hurt. But if we believe that those pain we are about to encounter is all part of the process of growing up, pain will be something that grows us to flowers which we do not expect to bloom within us. Flowers that grows in the meadows beautifully are those who withstand the storms and heavy rain that pours above them and those type of flowers that shines brightly despite of the gloomy clouds hovering above us.
Pain grows all kinds of flowers, that most of us are so unaware of. We just have to appreciate it, accept and embrace it. We need to feel it to the fullest extent without dwelling. Let our pain be the water that washes the impurities and lead us to a more flourishing growth we yearn and let us bethe type of flowers who remains true to our selves even if the wind blows harshly shaking our every petals to the ground. Pray, believe andone day you….you..yes you…will definitely turn into the type of flower that outgrows every pain that tries to steal your life from you.
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